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TEMPER
There once was a little boy who had a bad temper.
His Father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper,
he must hammer a nail into the back of the fence.
The first day the boy had driven 37 nails into the fence. Over the next few weeks, as he learned to control his anger,
the number of nails hammered daily gradually dwindled down. He discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence.
Finally the day came when the boy didn't lose his temper at all. He told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his temper.
The days passed and the young boy was finally able to tell his father that all the nails were gone.
The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence. He said, "You have done well, my son, but look at the holes in the fence.
The fence will never be the same.
When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one. You can put a knife in a man and draw it out.
It won't matter how many times you say I'm sorry, the wound is still there."
A verbal wound is as bad as a physical one. Friends are very rare jewels, indeed. They make you smile and encourage you to succeed. They lend an ear, they share words of praise and they always want to open their hearts to us."
6 comments
Comment from: bakinka_v_NY [Visitor]
kak vseqda ochen pouchitelniy post.Doqrudan da soz yarasi fiziki yaradan qat-qat aqir olur.Mueyyen zaman kechenden sonra sen bedeninin hansisa bir yerinde olan yarani unudursan,ancaq sozle,hereketle senin qelbine deyirlerse iller de kechse ureyinden onun izi tam silinmir...Menim rehmetlik bibimin bir gyozel sozu vardi(umumiyyetle onda mudrik sozler chox idi)"qurban olum o qezebe ki ustunden 1 gun keche".Basha dushmemishdim,basha saldi meni.Dedi ki esli ti chto-to nepriyanoe uslishala ili uvidela ne toropis otvetit srazu.Na goryachuyu golovu mojesh delat oshibku,mojesh poteryat ochen blizkix tebe lyudey.Bashivi qat,ureyinde de ki eybi yox men senin cavabini sabah vererem...Sabahacansa senin hirsin xeyli soyumush olacaq ve sen situasiyani daha duzgun qiymetlendireceksen....
04. 02. 07 @ 21:52
Comment from: Mysterious [Visitor]
Heqiqetende duz deibler qilinc yarasi sagalar,soz yarasi sagalmaz...hemishe gerek hirsli olanda hissleri cilovlamagi bacarasan, yoxsa bashqa birisinin qelbine deymish olarsan:(,duzdur insanlar arasinda soz sohbet olur,kusmek olur, ancaq chalishasanki qelbler hec zaman kusmesin.
Chox sag olun Agsaqqal_emi daha bir maraqli post uchun:)
04. 02. 07 @ 23:33
Comment from: Most Known Unknown [Visitor]
Bravo Whitebeard:) hemisheki kimi e'laydi!
05. 02. 07 @ 09:50
Comment from: sensitive [Visitor]
"Sonraki peshmanchiliq fayda vermez" - bu sozu defelerle xatirlayiram. Ve hetta en hirsli vaxtimda bele susmagi danishmaqdan ustun tuturam, sonradan peshman olmayim deye. Hemin an sadece aglamaqla hirsimi soyuduram, belke de en yaxshisi ele budur, neinki kobud sozler ishledib kiminse qelbini qirmaq. Bele bir atalar sozu de var - "Sirke ne qeder tund olarsa oz boshqabini chatladar" - heqiqeten insan ne edirse ancaq ozu-ozune edir. Ona gore en hirsli animizda bele hissleri cilovlamagi bacarmaliyiq. En azindan sonra hemin insanla uz-uze gelende xecalet teri axitmamaq uchun...
Chox sag olun posta gore.
05. 02. 07 @ 11:22
Bakinka, duz deyib, Bibin. Allah ona rehmet elesin
Mysi, deymez :)
MKU, chox mersi, E&L :)
Sensitive, gozel prinsipdir. Herchendi o prinsipi saxlamaq 1 baaaaaaalaca qelizfasondu :)
05. 02. 07 @ 18:12
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